Becoming H.E.R. Podcast
Episode 3: Modification vs. Transformation
Hey ladies! Welcome back to the Becoming H.E.R. Podcast. Today we talked about the difference between modification and transformation through the life cycle of a butterfly. This episode was such a special one to me because it was actually my first sermon I ever preached, and I truly believe this message will bless you.
In this episode we discussed
The purpose of a butterfly and God’s design in creation
The 4 stages of a butterfly’s life cycle
What “failed metamorphosis” means spiritually
Why our environment matters in our growth as believers
The danger of spiritual parasites and unhealthy connections
The importance of being spiritually fed through the Word of God
Why God is after our hearts, not surface-level behavior
The role of the Holy Spirit in our becoming
Modification vs. Transformation:
Key Reminder:
Transformation is not about becoming in your own strength. It’s about staying connected to the God who gives you strength to become.
Scriptures from Today’s Episode:
Romans 12:1–2
John 6:35
2 Corinthians 5:17
Philippians 4:13
2 Corinthians 12:9
Matthew 16:24–26
Jeremiah 17:9
Worship Song of the Week:
“Tasha Cobbs Leonard – Fill Me Up”
Journal & Prayer Prompt:
Ask God to reveal any areas in your life where you’ve been focused on modification instead of true transformation. Invite the Holy Spirit into those places and surrender the process of becoming to Him.
Reflection Questions:
What environment am I planted in right now?
Are the people around me pulling me closer to Jesus or further away from Him?
Am I trying to change through self-effort or surrendering to the Holy Spirit?
What area of my life is God asking me to fully surrender?
Ladies, remember this:
We are becoming women who are pursuing a life of faith, purpose, and transformation.
Who is HER?
She is you.
She is me.
And we are becoming…
I love you all so much! See you next week!
Ky,







